What should you put in the first message to a beautiful woman online? Well let’s start with what not to write in a first message to a hot girl. NEVER, I repeat NEVER tell a woman that “She’s beautiful, gorgeous, etc.” Most beautiful women have their entire inboxes filled with messages that start with a comment about their looks. Trust me, if a woman is gorgeous, she knows it, she’s been hit on a million times already and she deletes those messages unless she really likes the looks of you.
Our goal is to get the most attractive women online to message you back without commenting on looks. First up, what should you make your message subject? Something that’s enticing. Something that will make a woman curious. Curiosity killed the cat…
Subject: You Seem Interesting…
This subject heading is incredible. It leaves so many openings. First off, women don’t get this type of subject line often. Most are: “Hey baby!, Hi how’s it going?” Those are redundant at best but they don’t peak any interest. Also they give away all your power by saying showing how interested you are in the woman. By saying “seem” it means she has to prove it to you. Make her want to impress you. Make yourself the catch, not her. Also, this subject heading allows you to say hey you have a few things going for you…what else do you have? Leaves a little bit of mystery. Plus you don’t have to make your subject profile specific, allowing you to message multiple women with the same exact message.
After the subject what should your actual message open with? The following chart is from Okcupid.com and shows first line greetings over the course of 10,000 messages.
OkCupid.com Greetings Chart
According to OkCupid.com’s research. I recommend always starting your first message to a hot woman with “How’s it going?” It’s the most replied to line, the research doesn’t lie. Not need to reinvent the wheel because it works. Unfortunately, I can’t give you the entire first message, including the body and closing. If you want to learn that check out a free video clip from my instructional dvd here.
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