Getting girls is easy.  Getting girls is repeatable.  Getting girls is a process that anyone can learn.  Up until recently getting women to like you was a confusing science.  In fact no one really understood why certain guys were more successful beyond ideas like “He’s good looking” or “He’s got money.”  Luckily, a book came out that revolutionized the entire pickup community; Neil Strauss’ The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.  (I only suggest books I’ve read and learned a ton from. This is an affiliate link though and if you purchase I will make a small percentage from your purchase.) Although this book isn’t a how-to per say it’s certainly an entertaining primer for anyone interested in learning how to get girls.  What I’ve done in the past 5 years is use Neil’s information as well as several other sources (Mystery Method, Art of Seduction, etc.) to create a simple, repeatable process to get girls.  This is exactly the same way I learned how to pickup girls. It’s a timely process but the rewards are worth it.

I’m not selling this information.  I’m not asking you to download an e-book. I’m going to post my pickup guide in 4 parts on here for free.  I hope it helps those out there looking to better themselves by enriching their lives with beautiful women. Remember anyone can learn and repeat this process.

How To Get Girls: Part 1 Creating A Stronger You

First off, we are going to look at ourselves and find areas we need to work on.  These are inter-related to pickup and are essential to being successful in all avenues of life.

Step 1: List 3 accomplishments you want to achieve to make your life happier; state your reasons?

Self reflection is the only way to find goals you want to attain.  Post your list in your bathroom on your mirror.  Repeat your goals every day to yourself.  This will help you work towards your goals daily by vocally acknowledging them.

Step 2: “Your Look” How could you enhance your look?  What addition would make you stand out more?

Our goal here is to make sure you have a cohesive look.  Something that was purposely put together.  You don’t want to look like you just stumbled out of bed and put no effort into your appearance.  Women take great pride, time, effort and money to enhance their look for you.  You should do the same.

If you have no clue where to start then go to your local mall and check out the store mannequins.  These are outfits.  Buy the outfits that you think look good.  Use them in conjunction with men’s magazines like GQ, Stuff, Maxim and department store catalogs.  Also, wear at least one interesting accessory. Could be a watch, belt buckle, wild colored sneakers, anything that is in the style you’re going for and don’t feel silly wearing.

Step 3: Rate yourself (1-5; 1=low 5=high) in the following categories that girls look for in a potential boyfriend.

ambition = Do you have goals you are trying to attain?

intelligence = Do you have street and/or book smarts?

reliability = Can she count on you to be there when she needs you?

self assurance = Do you believe in yourself, aren’t needy and have confidence in your actions?

understanding = Do you listen and communicate well with her?

poise = Do you look confident and unaffected by others around you?

perseverance = Can you handle the swings of life and press through the hard times?

optimism = Do you remain positive most times?

readiness = Are you willing an able to be available at a moments notice?

timeliness = Are you on punctual both in meeting people at certain times and in attaining goals?

By giving ourselves assigned numbers to each category we can focus on our strengths and weaknesses.  Nice work with the stronger categories (rated 4 or 5), you don’t have to focus any effort on these sections of your character.  For your weaknesses try to accomplish one moment a day where you try to better yourself in a particular category.

For example, if you rated low on optimism try to smile more throughout the day as well as make 2 positive comments to people at work or friends.  The positive comments can be simple such as “It’s gorgeous out today” even if it’s raining.  Embrace the negative and respin them into positives.  Rain helps crops grow and gives us water we can drink.  All positives.

If you’re untimely then make sure you wake up on time and get to work, school, parent’s house or friend’s place on time.  Don’t be late.  Be early! Plan an extra 20 minutes and you’ll always be early.  There’s a great old axiom about being on time.  “To be early is to be on time. To be on time is to be late. And to be late is to be left behind.” Don’t be left behind anymore!

Ok that’s it for How to Get Girls: Part 1 Building a Stronger You.

Continue the process with How to Get Girls: Part 2 Attracting Girls